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Why You Feel Guilty for Leaving Someone Who Hurt You

  • Writer: Michael Capleone, Sr.
    Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • 3 days ago
  • 1 min read

You walked away from someone who damaged your self-worth, drained your energy, and manipulated your kindness—so why do you still feel guilty?


The answer is trauma bonding. When love and pain are tangled together, walking away feels like betrayal, not survival. That guilt is a symptom of what you endured—not a sign you made the wrong choice.


Many people in toxic or narcissistic relationships are gaslit into believing everything is their fault. You were probably told you were the reason for the chaos—and now that you’re gone, that false responsibility still lingers.


If you’re co-parenting with a toxic ex, this guilt can intensify. But staying in an unhealthy dynamic isn’t noble—it’s destructive. Your mental health matters.


Want to understand what’s really going on beneath the guilt—and how to free yourself emotionally? Download my Guide on this!




Legal Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is unique—please consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to discuss your specific situation. Also, this  blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, psychological, or professional advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship or any other professional-client relationship. The information provided is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified attorney, financial advisor, tax professional, psychologist, or other expert regarding your specific situation.


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Attorney Michael Capleone



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