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Love or Addiction? Understanding Trauma Bonding

  • Writer: Michael Capleone, Sr.
    Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • 3 days ago
  • 1 min read

Can’t stop thinking about your ex—even though they hurt you? Feel drawn back into the cycle every time they’re nice again? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.


You may be experiencing a trauma bond, a powerful emotional attachment formed through cycles of abuse and intermittent kindness. It’s common in relationships involving narcissistic partners, emotional manipulation, or control.


Here’s the truth: what feels like love might actually be emotional addiction. The highs and lows of a toxic relationship flood your brain with dopamine, cortisol, and oxytocin, keeping you hooked.


Love builds slowly and feels safe. Trauma bonds are intense, unpredictable, and exhausting. You crave the good moments and tolerate the bad, hoping for change.

Breaking the trauma bond starts with naming it—and choosing yourself.


Want help identifying the patterns, setting boundaries, and finally walking away with clarity?

Download the full guide: Love or Addiction? Understanding Trauma Bonding



Legal Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is unique—please consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to discuss your specific situation. Also, this  blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, psychological, or professional advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship or any other professional-client relationship. The information provided is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified attorney, financial advisor, tax professional, psychologist, or other expert regarding your specific situation.


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Attorney Michael Capleone


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