When You Can’t Stop Hoping They’ll Change

Do you keep holding on, hoping your toxic ex or partner will finally change? You're not alone—and you're not crazy.

Many people trapped in trauma bonds struggle to let go, not because they’re naïve, but because their brain has been conditioned to expect change just around the corner. You’ve seen glimpses of kindness. They’ve promised to do better. And so you stay.

But the cycle repeats.

False hope is the glue that keeps you stuck. It’s why you explain away the manipulation. It’s why you convince yourself this time is different.

Here’s the truth: real change is rare. Especially in people with narcissistic or abusive traits. Most change only happens after sustained accountability, therapy, and zero tolerance for manipulation.

Meanwhile, you're drained, anxious, and walking on eggshells.

If you share kids, money, or history—it’s even harder. But staying in that cycle doesn’t help your children. It only deepens the wound.

Letting go of hope isn’t about giving up—it’s about getting free.

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Attorney Michael Capleone