Ghosted by a Narcissist on Halloween – How to Set Boundaries

Being ghosted by a narcissist on Halloween is more than just hurtful—it’s strategic. Whether it’s skipping custody time, disappearing during holiday events, or suddenly going silent, this behavior is a form of emotional control.

Narcissists use ghosting to manipulate and destabilize. On a holiday like Halloween, it can leave both you and your child confused, disappointed, and angry. But you can respond with strength and clarity.

Start by naming the tactic—this isn’t a random act; it’s about power. Next, resist the urge to react emotionally or chase them for answers. The best defense is a strong boundary.

If your ex was supposed to have visitation and failed to show up, document it. In Alabama, repeated noncompliance with custody orders may justify a petition to modify. Tools like OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents help you document ghosting patterns.

On an emotional level, focus on your child. Don’t let the narcissist steal your holiday joy. Make your own Halloween traditions, take pictures, and reassure your child they are loved and supported.

And remember: this kind of manipulation loses power when you stop playing the game.

For a deeper breakdown on how to handle this—and how to build boundaries that stick—check out our full guide here: Ghosted by a Narcissist on Halloween – How to Set Boundaries

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Legal Disclaimer:

 The content in this blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Laws and legal procedures vary by state, and the information provided here may not apply to your individual case. For advice tailored to your specific situation, it’s important to consult with a licensed family law attorney.

Attorney Michael Capleone