What to Do When DHR or CPS Shows Up Unannounced – How to Handle the Surprise Home Visit

An unannounced visit from DHR (Department of Human Resources) or CPS (Child Protective Services) can feel like the floor dropping out from under you. Whether you're in Hoover, Alabama or anywhere nationwide, what you do in the first ten minutes can significantly shape how the agency sees your parenting and home.

This blog gives you a step-by-step legal and emotional survival tips to navigate the visit calmly and wisely.

1. Stay Calm and Polite

Your first instinct may be to panic, get angry, or feel overwhelmed—but resist. An emotional reaction can immediately cast you in a negative light. Instead, greet the worker calmly. Say:

“Thank you for letting me know you're here. May I ask what this is regarding?”

2. Confirm Identity

Before allowing entry, ask to see official identification. A legitimate DHR or CPS worker will provide it without issue. You have a right to know who you're speaking with.

3. Ask for the Nature of the Complaint

Politely ask for a general description of the concern. While they may not reveal specific details, you’re entitled to understand what triggered the visit.

4. You Have the Right to an Attorney

You are legally allowed to request that your attorney be present. If you’re unsure, say:

“I’m happy to cooperate, but I would like my attorney present for any questioning or documentation.”

This alone often changes the tone of the visit.

5. Don’t Volunteer Too Much

Be respectful, but cautious. Only answer what is asked. Overexplaining or emotionally defending yourself can inadvertently raise red flags.

6. Be Mindful of What They Observe

DHR workers are trained to take in details:

• Are there signs of cleanliness and basic safety?

• Is your child dressed appropriately and responsive?

• Are there safety hazards visible?

Have working smoke detectors, food in the fridge, and basic tidiness.

7. Be Honest, Not Defensive

If the worker asks about a known issue—say, a missed doctor’s visit or a past report—acknowledge it with maturity.

“Yes, that was a challenge at the time. I’ve taken steps to correct that.”

8. Take Notes

Keep a private log after the visit. Record:

• The worker’s name

• The time and date

• What was said or observed

• What was asked of you

This may help your attorney later.

Final Thoughts

A surprise visit from DHR or CPS doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent. But it does require you to handle yourself with legal awareness and emotional composure.

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