How to Communicate with the Guardian ad Litem to Win Your Case – In the Courtroom

Facing a custody hearing where the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) will report to the judge can be a nerve-racking experience. But how you conduct yourself in court—and how you interact with the GAL—can reinforce your credibility and help tip the scales.

1. Dress and Demeanor

• Dress conservatively and professionally

• Maintain good posture

• Avoid dramatic facial expressions or eye-rolling

You are being watched not just by the GAL but by the judge and opposing counsel. Calm confidence speaks volumes.

2. Never Interrupt the GAL

When the GAL is giving their report or testimony:

• Do not react visibly

• Do not whisper or pass notes to your attorney unless necessary

• Let your attorney handle any objections or rebuttals

3. Refer to the GAL Respectfully

When speaking, refer to them formally:

“As the Guardian ad Litem mentioned...”

This signals that you recognize the court process and respect its representatives.

4. Prepare Your Attorney with Key Observations

Before the hearing:

• Share any past inconsistencies or concerns with the GAL’s conduct

• Provide documentation that supports or rebuts GAL statements

Let your attorney build these points into their courtroom strategy.

5. Use Your Testimony to Highlight Strength

In your testimony:

• Speak of routines, emotional support, and parenting goals

• Acknowledge struggles, but redirect toward action and improvement

“It’s been challenging, but I’ve remained consistent with therapy and school involvement.”

6. Don’t Let Emotion Derail Your Demeanor

Even if the GAL’s report contains inaccuracies or criticisms:

• Stay composed

• Show no contempt or hostility

• Lean on your attorney to make your case with clarity and control

Final Thoughts

Courtroom appearances are not about being the loudest or most emotional—they’re about showing who’s most stable, child-focused, and ready to co-parent. When you support your case with steady courtroom conduct and respect for the GAL, you send the judge a powerful message.

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