How to Keep DHR or CPS from Turning a Visit Into a Case – What Parents Need to Know
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- May 7
- 5 min read
A surprise knock from DHR or CPS doesn’t always mean your children are being taken—but it can start the process unless you respond strategically. If you're reading this, you might be already in crisis or trying to avoid one.
Let’s break down the most effective ways to shut down unnecessary investigations before they start, while preserving your emotional and legal ground.
1. Understand the Scope of Their Power—and Its Limits
DHR/CPS has legal authority—but not unlimited authority. Without a court order or imminent threat, they cannot enter your home or take your child on a whim. Knowing this gives you back your power in the moment.
2. Appear Cooperative, But Be Legally Cautious
Being aggressive can escalate things. But being too friendly can give them information to use against you. Find the balance: polite, calm, cooperative—but assertive in asking for their credentials, reason for the visit, and confirming your right to an attorney.
3. Avoid These Common Traps
Parents often panic and:
Invite them in immediately
Admit to something irrelevant
Allow interviews with kids alone
Sign “safety plans” without understanding them
Avoid these. Every action during a visit can be interpreted as consent or guilt. Don’t give them what they’re fishing for.
4. Say Less, Listen More, Call an Attorney Fast
Whether or not you believe there’s cause for concern, you should not speak extensively without legal guidance. A seasoned family law attorney knows how DHR/CPS works and can intervene early to shut down bad investigations.
5. Your Home Appearance Matters
If you do allow them in, make sure your home appears clean, safe, and stocked. They take mental notes of everything—messy rooms, empty pantries, pet dander, broken locks, even the tone of your voice. First impressions count.
6. Keep Children Out of the Interview Without You
You have the right to be present. If they insist on speaking with your children alone, ask for it to be recorded or observed by your attorney. Many wrongful removals start with misunderstood child statements.
7. Take Control of the Next Step
After the visit, don’t just sit and wait. Your attorney can reach out, request records, and begin documenting your proactive parenting efforts. This keeps the spotlight on truth—not on any false narrative.
Protect Your Future, Not Just Today
A single visit from DHR or CPS can snowball. But it doesn’t have to—not if you act wisely, legally, and decisively. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be prepared.
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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