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Think Before You Post: How Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok Can Damage Your Court Case and Mental Health

  • Writer: Michael Capleone, Sr.
    Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • May 7
  • 4 min read

In today’s world, what you post online can walk straight into a courtroom—and it can walk your case right into the ground.


Whether you’re going through a criminal court case, a divorce, fighting for custody, or trying to co-parent with someone emotionally volatile, your social media activity is not private. Family court judges, opposing attorneys, and even DHR investigators know how to pull screenshots, context, and implications from posts on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.


What might feel like a harmless vent, a cryptic meme, or a story filter can become evidence of instability, aggression, or parental unfitness.


So what can you do?

  • Avoid passive-aggressive posts. No “some people just don’t deserve custody” rants. It’s discoverable.

  • Don’t post your wins. Gloating or taunting can be used to portray you as antagonistic or emotionally unfit.

  • Don’t let friends tag you in nightlife posts. Judges can misinterpret them—especially if custody is in question.

  • Block your ex and their inner circle. And still, assume everything you post will get back to them.


Beyond legal danger, social media fuels emotional chaos. Algorithms reward outrage. Narcissistic exes often use social media to distort narratives and play the victim, using TikTok or Facebook as a stage for public manipulation. What’s the solution? Use your phone to document—not perform. Save evidence, don’t create new drama. And most importantly, get legal guidance.


Need a step-by-step guide on exactly what to do and what to avoid? Read the full professional breakdown in my guide. This guide is legally sharp, emotionally aware, and nationally relevant—with a section specific to Alabama courts. Get the Guide!




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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law

Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict custody battles, seeking modifications to child support or visitation, or facing difficult divorce proceedings, having problems with a toxic ex, trying to co-parent with a narcissist. Michael Capleone provides expert legal tips and topic specific information with wisdom and clarity. He is committed to ensuring that his clients’ rights are protected, and their voices are heard in the courtroom. These blogs and guides that he is creating are meant to provide simple, straightforward, helpful, and powerful practical information for people all across the United States of America and beyond. 

These guides are written in a brief and concise way to get you powerful and useful information that you can easily print off in a reasonable small number of pages. Each guide is a concentrated, no-fluff resource — around five pages packed with professional insight, legal strategy, and emotional survival tactics. They are designed to cover the real pain points people face in courtrooms and custody fights: defending yourself against false accusations, exposing manipulation without looking petty, protecting your financial future, and keeping your relationship with your children strong in the middle of conflict.

For less than the cost of a single attorney consultation, you get targeted strategies built from over 22+ years of real-world family law experience. These aren’t generic blog articles or cookie-cutter templates. Every guide is designed to give you immediate, actionable steps — the same strategies I teach my own clients — adapted for real people dealing with real, high-stakes problems.

If you're serious about defending your rights, protecting your children, and staying one step ahead of a manipulative ex, these guides aren't just helpful — they're essential. They will save you time, reduce your stress, and help you make smarter moves when everything is on the line.

Winning in court isn’t just about having evidence. It’s about understanding the psychology, the patterns, and the legal strategies that judges actually respond to. These guides put that power in your hands. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start taking control, you’re exactly where you need to be!

For more information on Michael Capleone’s legal services or to schedule a consultation, visit my website: https://attorneymlc2003.wixsite.com/website. An experienced Hoover, Alabama family law attorney that guides clients through legal strategy, emotional challenges, relationship problems, legal matters and more to achieve the best positive outcomes. Note: Licensed in the State of Alabama only. 

This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is unique—please consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to discuss your specific situation. Also, this  blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, psychological, or professional advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship or any other professional-client relationship. The information provided is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified attorney, financial advisor, tax professional, psychologist, or other expert regarding your specific situation.



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