She Always Has My Kid Call and Cancel Visitation – What Can I Do Without Looking Like the Bad Guy?

If your ex constantly puts your child in the middle by having them call to cancel visits, you’re dealing with more than just inconvenience. You’re facing emotional manipulation with legal consequences. What do you do when your child keeps canceling visitation, you experience parental manipulation, visitation schedule interference, and your narcissistic Ex continues to interrupt your time with the children? A family law and divorce attorney practice since 2003, the law office of Attorney Michael Capleone is located in Hoover, Alabama. I've written a guide on these issues to help.

Many parents—especially fathers—feel like they can’t say anything without being labeled “difficult” or “uncooperative.” But silence only enables the cycle.

Here’s what you can do:

1. Stay calm on the call: Reassure your child and end the conversation with love—not blame.

2. Keep records: Log every cancellation in detail.

3. Follow up with your ex in writing: Keep your messages factual and neutral.

4. Don’t take the bait: You’ll win more by staying composed than reactive.

Eventually, if the pattern continues, you can take legal action to enforce your rights or adjust custody orders. Courts recognize when one parent consistently undermines visitation—especially when it’s done through the child.

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Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is unique. For legal guidance tailored to your situation, please consult an experienced family law attorney licensed in your state.