What Are My Rights When the Kids Don’t Want to Visit?
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- Apr 17
- 1 min read
Updated: 7 days ago
What do you do when your child suddenly refuses to visit you?
It’s a painful situation—and more common than most parents think. Sometimes kids are being influenced by the other parent. Sometimes they’re just overwhelmed or upset. But no matter the reason, if you have a court order for parenting time, you are legally entitled to it.
Your ex cannot simply say, “They don’t want to go.” A child doesn’t have the legal authority to override a custody order. The custodial parent must encourage the child and make all reasonable efforts to comply with the visitation schedule.
What should you do if the child refuses to come?
Stay calm. Don’t argue with the child or the other parent.
Document everything. Keep records of all communication.
Be present or show availability for your time. Courts want to see effort.
If this becomes a pattern, especially if you suspect manipulation or parental alienation, it may be time to file a motion with the court. Judges will look at how both parents are supporting—or undermining—the child’s relationship with the other parent. Consult an experienced family law attorney in your state.
Don’t give up. You have rights. You have options. And you’re not alone. I've written a guide to give you help, clarity, and legal bearings on how to handle this difficult time.
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Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is unique. For legal guidance tailored to your situation, please consult an experienced family law attorney licensed in your state.
