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She’s Telling People I Was Abusive—Can That Hurt My Custody Case?

  • Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • 36 minutes ago
  • 1 min read

False accusations don’t just hurt your feelings—they can wreck your reputation and your custody case. If your ex is calling you abusive to her friends or on social media, it may feel like slander—but is it legally significant?


The answer depends on how it impacts your parenting, not just your social circle. If your child begins to fear you, if teachers or therapists are misinformed, or if DHR gets involved based on lies—then yes, you may face serious legal risk.


Judges care most about your child's wellbeing. If your ex is spreading damaging lies that affect your child’s view of you, or interfere with your parenting time, it could influence custody.


Want to know exactly what to do—and what not to do—when your reputation is under attack? Get my guide: She Made Me Look Abusive to Her Friends—What’s the Legal Risk? Learn how to document false claims, what Alabama law says, and how to fight back strategically without looking angry or unstable.




Legal Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is unique—please consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to discuss your specific situation. Also, this  blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, psychological, or professional advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship or any other professional-client relationship. The information provided is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified attorney, financial advisor, tax professional, psychologist, or other expert regarding your specific situation.


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Attorney Michael Capleone

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