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How to Win Custody When Your Ex Is a Narcissist

  • Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • 6 days ago
  • 1 min read

Custody battles are never easy—but when your ex is a narcissist, they become a battlefield of manipulation and control. Narcissists thrive on chaos. They lie, twist facts, and provoke emotional reactions they can use against you in court.


But here’s the truth: You can win custody. You just have to play smarter—not harder.

As a family law attorney in Hoover, Alabama since 2003, I’ve helped many clients win custody against high-conflict, narcissistic exes. The key? Stay calm, document everything, and let the narcissist’s behavior expose itself through the proper channels.


What to do:

  • Keep a log of everything—missed exchanges, nasty texts, sudden outbursts

  • Use communication apps (like OurFamilyWizard) to track messages and avoid conflict

  • Ask the court for a guardian ad litem or parenting evaluator if needed

  • Avoid reacting emotionally—it’s exactly what they want


Courts don’t reward drama—they reward stability. Show the judge you’re the parent who’s focused on the child’s wellbeing, not conflict.


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Disclaimer: This post is for informational purposes only. Always consult an experienced family law attorney regarding your case.


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Attorney Michael Capleone

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