Can He Really Get Full Custody Just Because I’m a Stay-at-Home Mom?
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 21 hours ago
- 4 min read
If you're a stay-at-home mom going through a custody battle, you've probably heard the threat: “I’m going to get full custody because you don’t even work.” It’s a common scare tactic—and a deeply unfair one.
Here’s the truth: Being a stay-at-home parent does not disqualify you from custody. In fact, in many cases, it proves your dedication to the child’s well being.
Why He’s Saying It
In high-conflict divorces, threats like this are about power and fear—not law. A working parent may try to use financial superiority to push for custody, but that doesn’t hold up under scrutiny in court. Judges want what’s best for the child, not what boosts someone’s ego.
What Courts Actually Consider
Family courts focus on the child’s best interests, not the parents’ income. If you've been the primary caregiver—managing the day-to-day routines, medical appointments, meals, schooling, and emotional support—you’ve built a track record the court takes very seriously.
Your job title isn’t “unemployed.” It's “primary caregiver.” That distinction matters—especially in Alabama, where courts consider the history of caregiving and the stability each parent provides.
Common Myths Stay-at-Home Moms Hear
You don’t contribute financially, so you can’t support the kids. False. Financial support is one factor, but not the only one. Child support, spousal support, or co-parenting agreements often address finances.
He makes more money, so he has more say. False again. Money alone doesn’t win custody. Emotional stability, consistency, and parenting involvement matter more.
Courts favor working parents. Not true. Courts favor involved parents. If your role has been primary caregiver, you’re already in a strong position.
What You Can Do Right Now
Document Everything. Create a log of your daily caregiving responsibilities. Dates, times, activities—it all helps.
Consult an Experienced Attorney. Legal guidance is essential. Don’t let intimidation shape your decisions.
Stay Calm. Stay Strategic. Even if you're scared, don’t lash out. Keep communications professional and document threats.
Get the Full Game Plan. We’ve created a comprehensive and informative guide that breaks all this down—strategically, emotionally, and legally.
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict custody battles, seeking modifications to child support or visitation, or facing difficult divorce proceedings, having problems with a toxic ex, trying to co-parent with a narcissist. Michael Capleone provides expert legal tips and topic specific information with wisdom and clarity. He is committed to ensuring that his clients’ rights are protected, and their voices are heard in the courtroom. These blogs and guides that he is creating are meant to provide simple, straightforward, helpful, and powerful practical information for people all across the United States of America and beyond.
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