How to Outsmart a Narcissist in a Child Custody Battle in Alabama
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- Apr 12
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 19
Navigating custody battles is tough—but when your ex is a narcissist, it becomes a strategic war. If you’re co-parenting with someone who thrives on control and conflict, you need to be prepared legally and emotionally. Here's what you need to know.
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1. Narcissists Don’t Co-Parent—They Compete
They want to win, not compromise. They may ignore court orders, make false claims, and manipulate the children to alienate you. Understanding this is your first line of defense.
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2. Start Documenting Now
You’ll need evidence. Every missed exchange, threatening message, or sign of parental alienation should be logged. Use apps like Our Family Wizard or even a private journal. Screenshots and call logs are golden.
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3. Maintain Your Composure
Don’t take the bait. Stay calm, focused, and never respond with emotion. Every word you say or text can show up in court.
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4. The Court Doesn’t Care About Drama—It Cares About Proof
Judges aren’t therapists. They make decisions based on documented behavior, not who caused the breakup. The more organized you are, the better chance you have.
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5. Get the Right Legal Representation
You need a family law attorney who understands narcissistic behavior. I’ve helped clients successfully navigate high-conflict custody cases—and I can help you too.
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Final Note:
Custody battles with narcissists are never easy—but with the right support, strategy, and mindset, you can protect your child and your peace of mind. Call Attorney Michael Capleone for a consultation today!
Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is unique. For legal guidance tailored to your situation, please consult an experienced family law attorney licensed in your state.
