Who Gets the Dog? Understanding Pet Custody in Divorce Court
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 2 days ago
- 6 min read
Introduction: For Pet Owners Going Through Divorce or separation—You're Not Alone
If you’re going through a divorce or separation and worried about what will happen to your beloved pet, you’re not being overly emotional—you’re being human. That furry companion has likely been your source of comfort, laughter, and unconditional love through some of life’s hardest moments. And now, just as your world is shifting, so is theirs. You 're not alone. I’ve worked with countless clients across Alabama who found themselves heartbroken not just over the end of a marriage, but over the fear of losing their dog, cat, or animal they consider family. These aren’t just pets—they’re protectors, therapy animals, playmates for your kids, or the one quiet presence who sat beside you when everything else felt like it was falling apart.
But here’s the truth: under Alabama law (and in most states), pets are legally considered property—not children. And while the law may not fully reflect the emotional depth of the bond, you still have options.
This blog was created to help you understand what’s at stake and how to navigate the legal, emotional, and practical sides of pet custody during divorce. You’ll learn:
How Alabama law views pets in divorce
How to negotiate fairly (and protect your bond)
What to do if you didn’t get custody of your pet
How to heal and move forward with dignity
You don’t have to go through this blindly. You can be prepared, proactive, and protected.
Whether you’re just beginning the divorce process or in the thick of it, I want to offer you legal clarity and emotional support every step of the way. Because your love for your pet matters—and so does your peace of mind. – Michael Capleone, Family Law Attorney | Hoover, Alabama. When couples separate, they often anticipate battles over finances, child custody, or the home. But for pet owners, one of the most emotionally charged and overlooked aspects of divorce is this: Who gets the dog? Or the cat? Or the parrot that’s been in the family for 12 years? In Alabama—and in most U.S. states—pets are still legally considered personal property. This means that unless parties agree otherwise, a court will treat the family pet much like it would a vehicle, a couch, or a bank account. For animal lovers, this can be a hard truth.
How Alabama Law Views Pets in Divorce
Under Alabama law, pets fall under equitable distribution—the legal process of dividing marital property fairly, though not always equally. If a pet was acquired during the marriage, it is typically considered marital property. If one spouse had the pet before the marriage, it may be considered separate property and remain with that spouse.
Courts will often consider:
Who purchased or adopted the pet
Who primarily cared for it (feeding, vet visits, training)
Whose name is on vet records or adoption paperwork
Where the children are going (if the pet is emotionally tied to them)
Emotional Bonds vs. Legal Ownership
Many pet lovers argue that pets are family—not property. While courts are increasingly sympathetic to this view, most still lack a formal “pet custody” framework. Judges are often limited in how much time they can devote to pet issues, especially if both parties are fighting over multiple assets.
That’s why it’s vital to negotiate pet arrangements early—ideally through a settlement, not litigation. A judge may give your pet issue only minutes of attention; a thorough agreement can give it the weight it deserves.
What You Can Do to Keep Your Pet
If you’re determined to keep your pet, here are smart legal moves to consider:
Gather receipts: food, vet care, grooming—anything that shows you were the primary caregiver.
Collect testimony or statements from neighbors or friends who’ve witnessed your bond.
Propose a clear agreement in writing that avoids court discretion.
Avoid "pet-napping" or withholding visitation—this can hurt your case and credibility.
Co-Owning or Visitation Agreements
Some ex-spouses successfully create “pet visitation” plans, much like child custody schedules. While not always enforceable in Alabama, these agreements can help reduce conflict and protect the pet’s well-being.
Examples:
One spouse gets the dog during weekdays, the other on weekends.
Alternating months or split holidays.
Shared vet expenses and decision-making responsibilities.
Want to Go Deeper?
My guide, “Who Gets the Pet in a Divorce? Legal and Emotional Answers for Pet Lovers,” offers roadmap—both legally and emotionally—on how to protect your bond with your animal. Whether you’re negotiating peacefully or facing court, this guide gives you tools, strategies, and emotional insight. Divorcing is hard enough without worrying about losing your furry companion. Don’t assume the court will protect your bond—prepare, document, and advocate for your role as caregiver. Your pet’s future may depend on it.
You're not alone—and you're not powerless. These simple, but informative and powerful guides that are strategic, legal, and provide sharp emotional tools that work. These guides are inexpensive, give you valuable knowledge, and peace of mind in addressing the issue you’re facing at a fraction of what it would cost to receive this same information from an in-person consultation with a professional.
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—Written by Michael L. Capleone, Esq. | Alabama Family Law Attorney | All rights reserved.
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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