What Is a Guardian ad Litem and Why Are They Involved in Family Law Cases?

In high-conflict custody cases, it's often difficult for a judge to determine which parent is truly prioritizing the child’s best interests. That’s where a Guardian ad Litem, or GAL, enters the picture. But what exactly is a Guardian ad Litem? What do they do? And how much power do they have? If you're involved in a custody or divorce case where a GAL has been appointed, understanding their role is critical—and knowing how to engage with them can shape the outcome of your case.

What Is a Guardian ad Litem?

A Guardian ad Litem is a person appointed by the court—often an attorney or sometimes a trained volunteer—whose job is to represent the best interests of the child in a legal dispute involving custody or visitation. Unlike attorneys for either parent, the GAL does not advocate for a specific adult. Instead, their sole duty is to evaluate what living arrangement or custody setup will serve the health, safety, and emotional well-being of the child. They are essentially the court’s eyes and ears, conducting an independent investigation and reporting their findings back to the judge. In many ways, they function like a child-focused investigator whose opinions carry significant weight.

Why Are GALs Appointed in Family Law Cases?

Judges often appoint a GAL when:

• There are serious accusations (such as neglect, abuse, or domestic violence)

• One parent raises mental health or addiction concerns

• There are claims of parental alienation

• A parent formally requests a GAL and the court grants it

• The child is caught in the middle of a highly adversarial custody dispute

The court knows that parents can be biased and emotionally charged—especially during divorce or custody litigation. By appointing a GAL, the judge adds a neutral, child-centered advocate to help assess what is truly happening behind closed doors. In Alabama and many other states, the legal standard in custody decisions is “the best interests of the child.” The GAL’s job is to bring evidence and insight to help the court determine exactly what that means in each unique case.

What Does a Guardian ad Litem Actually Do?

Once appointed, the GAL will begin their investigation by meeting with both parents—usually separately. They will also interview the child in a setting designed to make the child feel safe and open.

Other common duties include:

• Visiting each parent’s home

• Observing interactions between the child and each parent

• Speaking with teachers, counselors, therapists, and doctors

• Reviewing records (school, medical, police reports, etc.)

• Speaking with extended family or caregivers

The GAL is not there to trap or punish either parent—they’re there to observe patterns, assess credibility, and gather information from multiple sources. Their ultimate goal is to recommend a plan that protects the child’s physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.

Why You Should Take the GAL Seriously

A Guardian ad Litem’s final report to the judge often includes specific recommendations for:

• Custody and visitation schedules

• Whether therapy or parenting classes are needed

• Which parent the child should primarily reside with

• Whether certain environments are unsafe or inappropriate

Although the judge is not legally required to follow the GAL’s recommendations, many judges do—especially if the report is thorough and well-supported. If you dismiss the GAL, speak disrespectfully, or appear combative, those behaviors will likely show up in their report. On the other hand, demonstrating cooperation, emotional stability, and child-focused behavior builds trust and credibility.

What You Should Do When a GAL Is Appointed

• Be honest: The GAL is trained to spot exaggeration, deflection, or manipulation. Be truthful, but measured.

• Be respectful: The GAL is a neutral professional. Treat them accordingly.

• Be child-focused: Always speak in terms of what’s best for your child, not just what you want.

• Be prepared: Know your child's routines, school details, medical needs, and emotional strengths and challenges.

And importantly—do not coach your child. Any signs that you are trying to manipulate your child’s words or feelings will raise red flags.

Final Tips

A Guardian ad Litem can be the deciding factor in a custody case. Their report can shift the balance between equal claims and give the judge the insight they need to make a difficult call.

While a GAL appointment may feel intrusive, it’s also an opportunity—an opportunity to show that your home, your parenting, and your attitude toward co-parenting all serve your child’s best interests. Treat the process with respect, move strategically, and seek guidance from an experienced family law attorney who understands how GALs operate.

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Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

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