What Does a Guardian ad Litem Do—and How Can They Impact Your Case?
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- Jul 7
- 6 min read
If you’ve been told a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) will be assigned to your case, you may be wondering—what exactly does this person do, and how much power do they really have?
Why Guardian ad Litems Are Appointed—and How They Can Actually Help You Against a Narcissist Ex
When a court appoints a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) in a custody case, many parents panic. It feels invasive. It feels like someone is coming in to judge you—and worse, you may assume they’ll be manipulated by your narcissist ex’s charm. But here’s the truth: the GAL is not your enemy. In fact, in high-conflict cases involving a narcissist, the GAL may be one of your greatest safeguards.
Why Courts Appoint Guardian ad Litems
GALs are appointed to represent the best interests of the child, not the agendas of either parent. Courts bring them in when:
There are serious allegations (neglect, abuse, or parental alienation)
The case is too high-conflict for the judge to rely solely on testimony
The child is old enough that their perspective should be considered
One or both parents have accused the other of being unfit
When narcissistic behavior is part of the custody dynamic, judges often assign GALs because they need neutral, trained eyes on the situation. Narcissists thrive on distorting the truth—GALs are there to cut through the manipulation.
The GAL Is Not Your Enemy
A well-prepared parent sees the GAL as an ally in truth. GALs are trained to recognize high-conflict dynamics, including when one parent is controlling, coercive, or manipulative. You don’t need to prove your ex is a narcissist—you need to stay calm, child-focused, and cooperative. Over time, the GAL will see the pattern for themselves. Attacking the GAL or treating them with suspicion only plays into the chaos your ex wants. Instead, model the behavior you want the court to reward: maturity, emotional regulation, and devotion to your child’s well-being.
How the GAL Can Help You
In cases involving a narcissist, the GAL can:
Document behavioral patterns that might otherwise be hidden from the court
Advocate for a custody plan that reduces chaos and emotional harm to the child
Validate your concerns through independent observation and investigation
Handled strategically, the GAL process can expose the narcissist’s games—and protect your bond with your child.
In Alabama family courts, the GAL can have enormous influence over the outcome of your custody dispute. Understanding their role is essential if you want to protect your child and your legal standing.
The GAL’s Purpose
The Guardian ad Litem is appointed by the judge to represent the best interests of the child—not either parent. That means the GAL conducts an independent investigation which may include:
Interviews with both parents
Interviews with the child (age-dependent)
Home visits
Review of school, medical, or DHR records
Talking to therapists, teachers, or witnesses
How GALs Influence the Case
After their investigation, the GAL submits a written report to the judge with findings and recommendations. Judges in Alabama don’t always follow GAL recommendations—but they often do. Your actions, words, and cooperation throughout the GAL’s involvement can tip the scales.
Don’t Treat Them Like the Enemy
Some parents get defensive with the GAL, assuming they are biased. This is a mistake. GALs are looking for honesty, cooperation, and child-focused intent. Even if they don’t “like” you personally, they will respect a parent who keeps their child’s needs front and center.
Best Practices for Dealing with a GAL
Stay organized—document concerns, but don’t overwhelm them with emails.
Be child-focused in all communication.
Treat them with professionalism, even if you disagree with them.
Don’t over-contact or pressure them—it can backfire.
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