Parental Alienation and Control: Why She’s Using the Child and How to Fight Back Legally
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- May 8
- 4 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
In the world of high-conflict custody battles, some parents go beyond disagreements and step into manipulation. One of the cruelest tactics? Using your child as a weapon. This form of parental alienation is subtle, persistent, and damaging—to both you and your child.
Why Do They Do It? It’s about control and punishment. A narcissistic or vindictive ex may want to “erase” you emotionally from the child’s life. They know your child is your soft spot—and they exploit it.
Common Signs:
Your child repeats your ex’s language or accusations
Sudden refusal to visit or call
Distorted or false memories of events
Guilt-tripping when the child enjoys time with you
Legal Protections Available:
Custody Modification: If the behavior violates your parenting plan, you may have grounds to petition for a change.
Contempt Proceedings: Courts can enforce visitation and penalize noncompliant parents.
Therapeutic Interventions: Reunification therapy, court-appointed evaluators, and GALs may be recommended.
Document Everything: From text messages to canceled visits, keep records. Your child may not be able to advocate for themselves—but you can.
Bottom Line: Parental alienation is abuse. Alabama family courts—and others across the U.S.—increasingly recognize that keeping both parents involved is vital to a child’s well-being. Legal action can help correct the course.
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What to Do If Your Ex Is Turning the Kids Against You – Parental Alienation
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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