My Ex Sends Gifts to Look Like the Better Parent – Can I Stop It?
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
It starts with a flashy delivery. Then another surprise gift. Then the iPad they “forgot to ask you about.” If your ex is giving your child excessive or well-timed gifts to play the hero—or make you look like the strict one—you’re not alone. This tactic is common in high-conflict custody situations, especially when one parent is trying to control the emotional narrative.
The hard truth: gift-giving alone usually isn’t illegal. But when it undermines agreements, creates resentment, or manipulates your child’s emotions, it becomes a problem worth addressing.
Here’s what you can do:
Stay calm and neutral. Validate your child’s excitement without criticizing your ex.
Set boundaries where you can. Parenting plans can include clauses on age-appropriate gifts or shared decision-making.
Document everything. If the gifts violate court orders or are part of a broader alienation strategy, legal action may be warranted.
In the end, consistency, emotional safety, and presence always beat presents. But when it feels like your ex is running a PR campaign—you need a plan.
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