Interacting with Your Children — "Staying Connected: How Fathers Can Build a Strong, Healthy Relationship with Their Kids During High-Conflict Co-Parenting"
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 2 days ago
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Staying Connected: How Fathers Can Build a Strong, Healthy Relationship with Their Kids During High-Conflict Co-Parenting
When the other parent thrives on chaos, manipulation, and control, your relationship with your children becomes collateral damage. But here’s the truth: You can stay connected, even when a narcissistic ex is trying to poison the well.
Here’s how fathers can strengthen the father-child bond—even through the storm.
1. Don’t Criticize the Narcissist in Front of Your Kids
Even when your ex is undermining you, resist the urge to retaliate verbally. Why? Because your child may feel forced to “choose,” which causes confusion and guilt.
Say instead:
“I’m always here for you.”
“Even if we don’t agree, I love you no matter what.”
“It’s okay to love both your parents.”
This anchors you as the safe, loving parent.
2. Create Rituals and Routines
Children need consistency. That’s doubly true in toxic co-parenting situations. Rituals might include:
Saturday morning pancakes
Homework hour together
Nightly bedtime call
Your goal: create small, safe patterns they can count on.
3. Stay Present — Even If You’re Not Physically There
If visitation is limited or blocked, don’t go radio silent. Send texts, cards, videos, or voice messages. Use parenting apps that show read receipts.
Your consistency communicates: “I’m not giving up on you.”
4. Watch for Emotional Manipulation
Your narcissist ex may coach your child to express disinterest or anger toward you. Don’t panic. Don’t lash out.
Instead:
Stay grounded.
Keep the door open.
Keep showing up.
Time and maturity reveal the truth.
5. Use Counseling or Play Therapy
If your child’s behavior shifts significantly (withdrawn, angry, anxious), ask the court for joint counseling. Don’t accuse the ex—frame it as being in the child’s best interest.
6. Keep a Record of Alienation Attempts
Document any coaching, disparaging remarks, or pressure tactics your child shares. This may support a future modification of custody if the narcissistic behavior becomes harmful enough.
Final Thought:
Stay grounded in love, not war. Your steady presence is the antidote to the instability a narcissist creates. Keep showing up. That’s how you win.
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Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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