I’ve Been Falsely Accused in a PFA – What to Do Immediately After Being Served
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 4 days ago
- 6 min read
What Is a PFA—and How Can It Be Misused in Family Law?
A Protection From Abuse (PFA) order is a civil legal mechanism designed to protect individuals from violence, threats, or harassment—most commonly in the context of domestic relationships. When used appropriately, it can be a life-saving legal remedy. However, in the high-conflict world of custody battles and divorce, PFAs are sometimes misused as weapons rather than shields. In Alabama, a PFA can be filed ex parte—meaning without notice to the accused. The accuser provides a sworn statement to a judge, who may issue a temporary order restricting the accused’s rights before a hearing is even held. These restrictions can include removal from the home, loss of custody or visitation, firearm surrender, and no-contact provisions. Violating the order—even unintentionally—can lead to criminal charges.
Unfortunately, this system is vulnerable to manipulation.
Some litigants file false or exaggerated PFAs as tactical leverage in custody or divorce cases. Why? Because a temporary PFA can quickly shift power: it may grant emergency custody, force a parent out of the marital home, or paint one party as a “danger” before any evidence is presented in court. Even if the allegations are later dismissed, the damage is often already done.
False PFAs harm everyone.
They damage the credibility of real abuse survivors.
They deprive children of safe, loving parents.
They flood the court system with manipulation instead of justice.
And they leave the falsely accused with emotional, financial, and reputational scars.
At my firm in Hoover, Alabama, I represent individuals who have been wrongfully targeted by PFAs filed in bad faith. I fight to expose false allegations, protect parental rights, and restore reputations. False accusations can be defeated. But the system won’t fix itself—you must act quickly, strategically, and with experienced legal help.
Being falsely accused of abuse in a Protection From Abuse (PFA) petition is more than a legal crisis—it’s a life-disrupting event. If you've been served, you may feel shocked, angry, and unsure what to do next. But how you respond in the next 48 hours can define the outcome. Here's exactly what to do to defend yourself intelligently, legally, and safely.
1. Do Not Contact the Accuser
Even if the allegations are completely fabricated, do not call, text, email, or send a message through anyone else. Do not vent on social media or try to explain yourself. Any form of communication—even peaceful or indirect—can violate the temporary order and result in arrest or criminal charges.
2. Read the Petition Carefully
Go through the PFA petition line by line. Identify the specific allegations, the dates, the names, and the requested restrictions. Pay close attention to the temporary orders. You must understand the boundaries the court is enforcing—whether that means staying out of your home, away from your kids, or avoiding specific places.
3. Comply with the Temporary Order Fully
Temporary doesn’t mean optional. Whether or not the accusations are true, violating the temporary PFA can result in criminal consequences. Courts take these orders seriously. Don't risk jail over a misstep. Avoid all prohibited locations, people, and situations—even if it's inconvenient.
4. Hire a Family Law Attorney Immediately
You likely have less than 10 business days before a hearing. That’s not much time to prepare. Hire a seasoned attorney who understands domestic violence law, false allegations, and family court dynamics. Your defense needs to begin now—not the day before court.
5. Start Gathering Evidence
Collect everything: text messages, voicemails, social media interactions, call logs, GPS data, and any other documentation that contradicts the petition’s claims. If you were somewhere else at the time of the alleged incident—prove it. If you’ve been a responsible co-parent—show it.
6. Build a Timeline
Create a written timeline of events that correspond to the accusations. Be as specific as possible. Your attorney can use this to detect inconsistencies and build a credible narrative to present in court.
7. Identify Key Witnesses
Make a list of people who can confirm your whereabouts, communication, or behavior. They might include friends, relatives, neighbors, co-workers, or teachers. Share their information with your lawyer. Let them provide statements if they’re willing.
8. Stay Silent on Social Media
Don’t post. Don’t rant. Don’t “vaguely” talk about your situation online. Judges, opposing attorneys, and the petitioner’s side can—and do—monitor social media for anything to use against you. Silence is safety.
9. Document Everything Going Forward
Start a log. Write down every interaction, every custody denial, every strange communication, every attempt to manipulate through third parties. This log may become key evidence if the accuser continues making false claims or violating custody boundaries.
10. Understand the Stakes
A final PFA can restrict your parenting rights, limit your access to your own home, show up on background checks, and destroy your reputation. It’s not just a civil matter—it has real-world, long-term consequences. False accusations can feel paralyzing, but with immediate legal guidance, a clear head, and a strong plan, you can fight back—and win.
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—Written by Michael L. Capleone, Esq. | Alabama Family Law Attorney | All rights reserved.
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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