How to Interact With, and Document Conversations with Your Children - When Your Ex is Weaponizing Therapy

When your ex is manipulating therapy and coaching your child, it’s easy to feel helpless. Suddenly your child is saying things they never said before—“I don’t want to go with you,” “You’re scary,” or “Mom says the therapist says you yell too much.”

These statements can be heartbreaking—and dangerous if they make their way into court unchecked.

1. Stay Calm When Children Repeat Accusations

Children are often caught in the middle. React with concern, not anger.

Say:

• “I’m sorry you feel that way. Can you tell me more about that?”

• “Thanks for telling me. I’m here for you no matter what.”

You’re not just protecting your child—you’re also showing restraint and stability, which the court values.

2. Create a Detailed, Dated Log

Anytime your child says something that appears coached, log it:

• Exact words

• Date, time, location

• Any follow-up questions or reactions

Over time, these entries become a record showing potential manipulation.

3. Avoid Coaching or “Counter-Messaging”

Don’t say things like “Mom’s lying” or “The therapist doesn’t know what she’s talking about.” This can backfire and appear as alienation.

Instead, focus on:

• Reinforcing your love and stability

• Encouraging openness

• Reassuring your child that it’s safe to express feelings

4. Use Professionals When Needed

Consider requesting a Guardian ad Litem or forensic evaluator if the manipulation worsens. These professionals are trained to spot coaching, alienation, and psychological abuse.

5. Be Present, Not Perfect

Your child needs consistency. Even if they’ve become distant due to external influence, stay committed, engaged, and positive during your time together. Children often grow out of manipulative influence if one parent remains stable and safe.

Bottom Line: Therapy manipulation through children is insidious—but by staying calm, documenting honestly, and providing a steady presence, you not only protect your rights, you protect your child’s long-term emotional health.

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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law

Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

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