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What Is a Pendente Lite Hearing—and Why It Might Be Your Only Shot at Protecting Your Child Right Now

  • Writer: Michael Capleone, Sr.
    Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • 2 days ago
  • 4 min read

If you’re in the middle of a divorce or custody dispute and fear for your child’s well-being, waiting for a final hearing is not an option. This is where a pendente lite hearing could change everything. Pendente lite ("pending the litigation") refers to the temporary relief hearings the court allows before a final divorce or custody judgment is made.


While some people file for emergency custody when a child is in immediate danger, others need to act fast in cases that aren't quite emergencies but still demand rapid intervention. A pendente lite motion can be the difference between peace and chaos for you and your child.


What Can a Pendente Lite Hearing Do?

These hearings let a judge make temporary orders on urgent family matters, such as:

  • Temporary legal and physical custody

  • Visitation schedules

  • Child support

  • Spousal support

  • Possession of the marital home or car

If your ex is denying you access to your child or suddenly refusing to cooperate, these hearings offer a chance to restore structure and protect parental rights.


When Should You File One?

If any of the following are happening, you need to consider filing immediately:

  • You were just served divorce papers and have no custody orders

  • Your ex moved out and took the kids

  • You're being denied visitation

  • There's conflict over who pays what during the separation

Courts often set these hearings early in the process, sometimes within weeks of filing. That’s fast compared to a final trial, which can take months—or longer.


Why This May Be Your Only Shot

Judges sometimes use the pendente lite hearing to get a "status quo" that influences the final judgment. That means the temporary becomes the default. If you lose temporary custody now, it’s harder to reverse later.


Link to Your Legal Power

Pendente lite hearings don’t just protect kids—they establish financial stability and safety. Filing one strategically can be your first power move.


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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law

Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

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This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is unique—please consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to discuss your specific situation. Also, this  blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, psychological, or professional advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship or any other professional-client relationship. The information provided is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified attorney, financial advisor, tax professional, psychologist, or other expert regarding your specific situation.

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