Positive Life Changes That Help You Regain Visitation in Family Court

Understanding Drug Testing in Family Court: Types and Detection Windows 

When DHR (CPS) or the family court suspects substance abuse, they often order drug testing to assess whether a parent is fit for custody or visitation. Understanding the types of tests used and how long substances stay detectable can help you stay one step ahead in your case.

1. Urine Tests (10-Panel or 12-Panel)

This is the most common test used by DHR and Alabama family courts. It's fast, inexpensive, and detects recent use.

• Detection Window: 1 to 4 days for most drugs; up to 30 days for marijuana (depending on frequency of use).

• Pros (for court): Cheap, widely available.

• Cons (for you): Even weekend use from weeks ago can show up, especially for THC.

2. Hair Follicle Tests

This test can detect long-term patterns of drug use by analyzing drug metabolites trapped in the hair shaft.

• Detection Window: Up to 90 days or longer.

• Pros (for court): Shows a historical pattern of use or abstinence.

• Cons (for you): Even if you’ve been clean for weeks, prior usage may still appear.

Important: Hair follicle tests won’t detect drug use within the last 5-7 days. They’re about long-term use, not recent relapse.

3. Saliva Tests

Saliva (oral fluid) testing is less common in Alabama courts but is occasionally used for on-the-spot screening.

• Detection Window: A few hours to 2 days.

• Used for: Immediate checks—like at court or supervised visitation centers.

4. Blood Tests

Rare in custody cases unless a medical emergency is involved. They detect very recent use and are the most invasive and expensive.

• Detection Window: A few hours to 2 days.

Note:

If you’ve been ordered to take drug tests by DHR or family court, assume they can and will use multiple types of testing over time. Being proactive—clean tests, documented sobriety, and voluntary compliance—goes further than waiting to be tested.

If the family court or DHR has suspended your visitation rights, you're not out of the game—but you need to prove that you're not the same person who triggered those concerns in the first place. Positive, documented life changes are your best tool.

1. Stable Housing

The court wants to know your child has a clean, safe place to visit or live. If you were previously couch-surfing or staying with unstable individuals, get into a lease. If your home was unsafe, fix it. Keep photos and documentation.

2. Consistent Employment or Income

A job (or steady income) shows the court you can provide. Even part-time work matters. Don’t rely solely on “looking for work”—show actual effort and paystubs.

3. Counseling and Parenting Classes

If there were anger issues, past trauma, or communication problems, counseling helps both your case and your peace of mind. Parenting classes—especially DHR-approved ones—can go a long way in convincing the judge you’re serious about change.

4. Drug Testing and Sobriety Documentation

If substance use was an issue, nothing matters more than staying clean. Enroll in random weekly testing—even if not required. Document every result. This can be the single biggest factor in getting visitation reinstated.

5. Community Involvement

Show the court that you’re part of something positive. This could be church, volunteering, or support groups. Stability isn’t just about income—it’s about behavior and support.

6. Letters of Support

Ask for letters from counselors, employers, recovery sponsors, or even pastors. These should confirm your progress and character. Have them sent to your attorney, not directly to the court.

7. Be Patient—But Consistent

Change takes time. But consistency over a few months speaks volumes more than promises made yesterday. Show the court you're different today, not just planning to be better tomorrow.

Final Thought

The family court doesn’t expect perfection—but it does expect proof. Show up. Stay clean. Stay consistent. Make life changes that are real, not just rehearsed. You’ll be amazed how far that goes in getting your child back in your arms.

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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law

Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

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