My Kid’s Teacher Is Distant Toward Me Because of My Narcissist Ex – Can I Fix It?

If you’ve ever gotten the cold shoulder from your child’s teacher and wondered, “What did I do wrong?”—you’re not alone. High-conflict co-parenting with a narcissist can bleed into school life, and before you know it, your ex is controlling the narrative with your child’s educators.

Here’s what you need to know:

As long as you have joint legal custody, you are legally entitled to participate in your child’s education. This means access to report cards, school events, and communication with teachers.

When a narcissistic ex begins poisoning the well—through gossip, false claims, or subtle manipulation—teachers may distance themselves from you without realizing they’ve picked a side. But you can fix this.

Start by emailing the teacher directly. Politely reintroduce yourself and request to be included in future updates. If needed, share a copy of your court order showing joint custody. Always keep communication calm, professional, and focused on your child’s well-being.

Avoid badmouthing your ex—this isn’t about revenge. It’s about resetting the dynamic and protecting your right to parent.

If needed, meet with the school principal or counselor to re-establish your role. If your rights are ignored entirely, consult with a family law attorney to enforce your parental access legally.

You can fix the damage. But it starts with showing up consistently, communicating clearly, and documenting everything. I've written a guide giving you the steps to take!

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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law

Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 20+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery,   As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict custody battles, seeking modifications to child support or visitation, or facing difficult divorce proceedings, having problems with a toxic ex, trying to co-parent with a narcissist. Michael Capleone provides expert legal tips and topic specific information with wisdom and clarity. He is committed to ensuring that his clients’ rights are protected, and their voices are heard in the courtroom. These blogs and guides that he is creating are meant to provide simple, straightforward, helpful, and powerful practical information for people all across the United States of America and beyond.  Hope you find them helpful! If you have a suggestion for a future topic, please reach out. 

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