My Ex Brought a Weapon to a Custody Exchange—Here’s What You Can Do
- Michael Capleone, Sr.
- 2 days ago
- 4 min read
Custody exchanges are supposed to be neutral. But what happens when your ex shows up with a gun or other weapon?
Whether or not they made threats, their presence with a weapon can raise serious red flags—and immediate legal consequences.
Is it legal? In Alabama, it depends. The state allows one-party concealed carry, but when it comes to custody, courts prioritize safety over everything. If you feel threatened or unsafe—even without direct threats—you may be able to file for a Protection from Abuse (PFA) or modify custody terms through an emergency hearing.
What to do if this happens:
Don’t engage. Stay calm and neutral.
Call the police immediately if you feel unsafe.
Document everything. Dates, times, what was said or shown.
Leave the scene and request future exchanges occur at a police station or neutral site.
The court can help. Judges can order supervised exchanges, no-contact provisions, and bar your ex from possessing weapons during custody transfers.
What Judges Look for When Weapons Are Involved
When weapons enter a custody exchange—especially in emotionally charged situations—judges evaluate intent, safety, and risk. The key question isn’t just whether the firearm was legal to carry, but whether its presence created fear or intimidation.
Courts will examine:
Was the child present and visibly affected?
Was the weapon brandished, mentioned, or made visible intentionally?
Was there a history of threats, PFA violations, or hostile exchanges?
Did the other parent feel reasonably endangered?
Even if your ex claims they had no ill intent, the fact that you felt unsafe can trigger legal protection. Judges often respond by:
Ordering supervised exchanges or supervised visitation
Modifying custody schedules or locations
Issuing a no-weapons clause in the parenting plan
Requiring exchanges occur at police departments or child advocacy centers
If you’ve filed a report or captured video/photo evidence, you’re in a strong position to request immediate legal relief.
Tip: Courts also consider emotional coercion—not just physical threats. The simple act of bringing a firearm can send a chilling message. If you experienced that, document it. Judges take it seriously.
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About Michael Capleone, Attorney at Law
Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.
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