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How to Interact with DHR, CPS, or the Guardian ad Litem in Custody Cases

  • Writer: Michael Capleone, Sr.
    Michael Capleone, Sr.
  • Jul 1
  • 5 min read

If you’re involved in an emergency custody case, you may find yourself interacting with DHR (Department of Human Resources), CPS (Child Protective Services), or a Guardian ad Litem (GAL). These professionals can influence your case significantly. Here’s how to navigate those interactions wisely.


What Family Courts Look for in Emergency Custody Hearings

When deciding whether to grant emergency custody, family courts and domestic relations courts operate with one primary goal: the immediate safety and well-being of the child. Emergency custody is not granted lightly—it requires a clear, credible showing that the child is in imminent danger and that swift legal action is necessary to prevent further harm.


Key Factors Judges Evaluate

1. Immediate Risk of Harm: Courts look for credible, documented evidence of abuse, neglect, or danger. This includes:

  • Physical or sexual abuse

  • Severe emotional harm

  • Drug use by a parent in the child’s presence

  • Domestic violence or unstable living conditions


2. Supporting Evidence: The court wants to see more than accusations. Ideal supporting evidence includes:

  • Medical or police reports

  • Witness affidavits

  • Photos or video evidence

  • Communications (texts, emails) showing threats or harmful behavior


3. Credibility of the Petitioner: Judges assess the petitioner’s credibility, consistency, and motivation. If a parent has a history of good care, is calm and composed in court, and presents a child-focused case, they are more likely to be taken seriously.


4. Less Drastic Alternatives: Courts are cautious about disrupting custody arrangements unless it’s absolutely necessary. They may first consider supervised visitation or temporary conditions before full emergency custody is granted.


5. Best Interest of the Child: Ultimately, the court must believe that granting emergency custody is in the child’s best interest. Judges consider school stability, relationships with both parents, and emotional impact.


Note

Emergency custody hearings are designed for crisis situations—not tactical maneuvers in ongoing custody disputes. The court’s priority is to protect the child without overstepping due process. If you're considering this path, be fully prepared with documentation, clarity, and child-centered reasoning.


DHR/CPS: Cooperate, But Be Strategic

If DHR is involved, it means there’s concern about the child’s welfare. You must:

  • Be respectful and cooperative

  • Provide requested documentation

  • Avoid appearing evasive or defensive

Important: Do not volunteer excessive information. Focus on answering what they ask clearly and honestly. Avoid speculation or emotional rants.

Document all interactions with DHR: who you spoke to, when, what was said.


Understand Their Role

DHR’s goal is child safety—not siding with either parent. They may:

  • Visit both homes

  • Interview parents and children

  • Request medical or school records

  • Recommend court actions

Their findings often weigh heavily in court.


Guardian ad Litem: Advocate for the Child

A GAL is an attorney appointed to represent the child’s best interests—not yours or the other parent’s. Your interactions should reflect that understanding.

Treat the GAL with respect and:

  • Provide requested info quickly

  • Be child-centered in your communication

  • Avoid disparaging the other parent

Be honest and calm in all exchanges. If the GAL sees you as stable, clear, and focused on the child, it supports your case.


Don’t Coach the Child

Never tell your child what to say to DHR or the GAL. Courts can detect manipulation. Just be supportive and encourage honesty.


Follow Through

If DHR or the GAL recommends counseling, classes, or evaluations—do them. Show the court you’re proactive, not reactive.


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—Written by Michael L. Capleone, Esq. | Alabama Family Law Attorney | All rights reserved.


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Michael Capleone is a seasoned family law attorney based in Hoover, Alabama, with over 22+ years of experience helping clients navigate complex legal challenges, including divorce, child custody, parental rights, grandparent’s rights, military divorces, petition for protection from abuse, CPS and DHR matters, father’s rights, mother’s rights, relationship advice, pets/ animal custody when a relationship or marriage ends, and general family law matters, co-parenting, dealing with a narcissist, emotional recovery, and much more! As a licensed practicing attorney since 2003, is a dedicated advocate for his clients, Michael understands the emotional and legal complexities of family law cases and works tirelessly to secure favorable outcomes in his law practice.

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